Tuesday, February 16, 2010

ENG201

Here is the solution of quiz 1 eng

1. There are three choices in this life; be good, get good or give up.

2. How wonderful this news is!

3. Levin wanted friendship and got friendliness. He wanted steak and they offered spam.

4. Where are you going right now?

5. Our labors in life; learning, earning and yearning are also our reasons for living.

And Just help u for quiz 2 dont copy paste ok

Listening Skill
We hear - often without listening - when sound waves strike our eardrums. When we don't remember what we have heard, it is probably because we did not listen. A good example is the situation that frequently occurs when we are introduced to a new employee or a new acquaintance. A few minutes later we can't recall the person's name. Why? Because we probably failed to listen to the name when we were introduced.



Johnson defines listening as "the ability to understand and respond effectively to oral communication." Thus, we can state at the outset that hearing is not listening. Listening requires more than hearing; it requires understanding the communication received. Davis states it this way: "Hearing is with the ears, but listening is with the mind'."

Some of the attributes of a good listener are as follows:

* He usually makes better decisions because the inputs he receives are better;

* He learns more in a given period of time, thereby saving time; and

* He encourages others to listen to what he says because he appears more attentive and better mannered.

The typical listener, after 2 weeks can remember only 25 percent of what he has heard in a briefing or a speech. Therefore, listening is not effective for receipt and retention of factual details. For retention of factual details we must place our dependence on the written word.

Researchers have discovered that we can improve our listening comprehension about 25 percent. Most of us process the sender's words so fast that there is idle time for us to think about the message while it is being given. During this idle time a good listener ponders the sender's objectives, weighs the evidence being presented, and searches for ways to better understand the message. It follows that good listening can be considered "a conscious, positive act requiring willpower."

The ability to listen more effectively may be acquired through discipline and practice. As a listener you should physically and mentally prepare yourself for the communication. You must be physically relaxed and mentally alert to receive and understand the message. Effective listening requires sustained concentration (regardless of the length of the message), attention to the main ideas presented, note-taking (if the conditions are appropriate), and no emotional blocks to the message by the listener. You cannot listen passively and expect to retain the message. If you want to be an effective listener, you must give the communicator of the message sufficient attention and make an effort to understand his viewpoint.

There are 3 types of listening.

1. Content Listening

2. Critical Listening

3. Active Listening

There are several resins to improve effective listening. According to Tortoriello, some of these barriers are as follows:

* Recognizing that a personal risk is involved. Our thoughts and ideas might be changed in some way. Any change is threatening. . . initially;

* Listening for only those things that are relevant to our own goals and objectives;

* Listening for only those things that serve to satisfy our own needs;

* Casting aside those things that don't conform to our own models of the world; and

* Filtering the thoughts and ideas of the sender according to our frame of reference attitudes, beliefs, expectations, and relationship to the sender of the message.

Have you raised these barriers? Is the message coming directly to you without passing through some fine filters you have placed in the communications loop?

Are you an effective (good) listener? Do you listen intently and try to understand what the sender means? Do you try to put your understanding of the message in your own words and feed back what you feel the communicator meant - without adding to or deleting anything from the message?

If so, you will reach a better understanding with the originator of the message. Are you willing to enter the communicator's world for a few moments and share his experiences through intensive listening? By so doing, you can become an effective listener and convey a great kindness to him. At that point, you have taken a positive step toward improving your ability to communicate with others.

This is just your help for understaning question ok not copy.

There are three choices in this life; be good, get good or give up.

How wonderful this news is!

Levin wanted friendship and got friendliness. He wanted steak and they offered spam.

Where are you going right now?

Our labors in life; learning, earning and yearning are also our reasons for living.

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